Amazing Stories of Healing from Love Feels Better Clients
I kept trying to be ok with what wasn’t ok. I kept praying that God would fix things. I kept thinking it was me. I thought, if I just didn’t say or do anything ‘wrong’ then he wouldn’t get angry. I was so stressed out even going to bed at night. Walking on pins and needles was exhausting. Things would blow up and then they would be ok…for a while.
Shari helped me see that I couldn’t control what he did. It wasn’t me and that I didn’t have the power or ability to make him feel anything. It wasn’t my job to make him happy. That’s his job. My job was to take care of me and love myself enough to not put up with his outbursts anymore.
I’ve always been a people pleaser and I still loved him. I didn’t know what I would do out on my own, I was scared but I was tired of living this way. Shari helped me see the only way things were going to change was if I took the first step but before I drew a hard line in the sand I needed to be prepared for it to go either way. It was a process to get to this point but I knew for my sake and our kids’ sake, this could not continue.
When I talked to my husband I was calm and told him what I was going to do and that THIS marriage was over-either he got help or I was leaving. He knew I wasn’t playing games.
After thinking about it for a few days he started meeting with Shari. He felt so comfortable talking with her and looked forward to their sessions. I could see a shift in him right away and our home is way more peaceful and fun. Please don’t wait to get coaching!
I was separated for the 3rd time in my 14-year marriage when I met Shari. I was successful in my career and every other area of my life, but this relationship thing sucked.
I never felt Shari judged me nor did she have an agenda for me to stay or go (like family and friends often do). She held space for me to discover my own answers. I could now see how I was creating my results and that I don’t have the power to change anyone but me. I saw how I had been staying out of guilt, pity, and obligation–not love. I was tired of putting my life on hold and waiting. I decided to set him free to be him and I set myself free to be me.
Making that decision was like a huge weight off my shoulders. When I filed for divorce I was fair and reasonable. I wasn’t feeling angry, resentful, or vindictive. It was quick, uncontested and we didn’t waste a ton of money on attorney fees. That marriage is ‘complete’ as Shari puts it.
I know it was the best decision for me and I have no regrets. I am happy to be single and start this next chapter of my life.

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